Ishita. Unblogged - Istanbul In Pictures. We love travelling and although each place that we’ve visited holds a special charm for me, Istanbul left me spellbound. I found the city absolutely fascinating – a myriad of art, culture, cuisine and religion. It was like a kaleidoscope and put my senses on an overstimulated mode . The charm of old buildings combined with the quirkiness of the modern Istanbul peeping through it that effortlessly blended into a palpable throbbing that could be felt at every corner, each historic site that we visited and each alley we passed by. Every single brick in each building seemed to have experienced multiple layers of existence as different conflicting religious and cultural beliefs settled in at different periods in history. The city is a foodie’s paradise, from street food to electrifying nightclubs to exclusive restaurants. My earlier posts elaborately chalk out my culinary journey in Istanbul. This post is a photo journey capturing Istanbul throughout the day and as night cast its spell on the mesmerizing city until the day when I left. And it ached to leave the city at the backdrop of the setting sun and a swarm of people – all of them strangers who had engulfed my senses during my short and hurried stay. Many pictures to be precise! Unblogging it all. While you enjoy reading the posts with lot of visuals, please do not use any material from this post. You can see more pictures of my travel and food journey here. Wikipeda links to all the above places. ![]() New GameMaps in development! You stole this from someone else because it is called Till death do us part and its based on. Follow/Fav Till death Do us part. Finn wouldn't mind some company other than BMO and NEPTR.and I'm sure we can think of something to distract ourself till Dusk. Till divorce do us part. Marriage is a life time commitment. Is this true? This was true for the old generation. Even there weren’t any love and care binding the couple together, they would not divorce. They would still live under one roof. The commitment between them formed the family believe. Parents’ interests subsumed under their children. They honoured the commitment. They fulfilled the commitment. Till death do they part. Somewhat the thinking changes over time. Individual happiness becomes the new standard by which a marriage is judged. Individual happiness precedes the children’s needs. Children need security, safety, dependable and durable family ties. Divorce destroys them. ![]() Terms of Use Privacy policy Cookie policy Partner Terms © 2017 Indiegogo, Inc. Lot: TILL DEATH(OR UPGRADE) DO US PART, Lot Number: 0409U, Starting Bid: $44, Auctioneer: Artistic Findings, Auction: Artistic Galleries Fine Art & Jewelry Sale.
Divorce has long standing impact on children. It is about cause and effect. Researches show that: -Good parents + failed marriage = children with little confidence in the institution of marriage- Good parents + low conflict marriage = traumatic effect on children- The worst symptoms appear in adulthood, with less ability to trust an idea of what a lasting marriage looks like- Bad marriage + bad divorce = children have confidence in the institution of marriage. This is the only positive outcome. The children think that they could do better and would not repeat the same mistake of their parents. Globalisation is taking shape. Many breadwinners have to go overseas to make a living for their families. With the breadwinners separate from their spouse and children, it created a new challenge. This is not a divorce, but with non- residential parent, the effect would be similar. The children will still be impacted most. For boys, they tend to develop overt physical aggression. For girls, they internalise the aggression. But with the absence of warm and positive family relationship, girls tend to affiliate with opposite sex. This partially explains why teenager pregnancy and abortion rates are on the climb. Would infant and toddlers be affected by a “single parent” family? They are more fretful, crying, clinging. For pre- schoolers, they may feel abandoned, fearful, withdrawn. For pre- teen, social withdrawal, anger and helplessness. For teenagers, shock, anger, sadness, anxiety, disappointment, question concept of marriage, become moralistic or involved in high risk behaviours. You see how a person is shaped? The experiences in earlier years will shape a person’s future. The dynamic of this is subconscious without the person noticing it. Divorce process is quite simple in today’s society. Hence the commitment of life time relationship also becomes vulnerable. But before thinking of divorce, think twice. You take a long time on courtship before vowing a marriage (this is the luxurious that the old generation did not have). All of sudden, your spouse becomes ugly, useless and worthless? How could it be? Think of your children and the agony that they have to go through. They do not have a choice to choose you to be their parents. Do you want to destroy them as well? When your children telling you “I am not your messenger”, “don’t ask me take sides. It’s not fair”, “I need both of you”. Till divorce do us part? Have you thought through the impacts of divorce on the family?
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